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personal: eye of the beholder
 do you like the way your vagina looks?
For the record, the vagina is actually the canal inside. What I think of as the face of the vagina—the lips, the clitoris, the clitoris' hood, etc. all the parts you can see—that is called the vulva. So, this questionnaire is about how you feel about how your vulva looks. [see vulva diagram] though I can't help but ask the question as: do you like the way your vagina looks? because that's what I've always called it...although, that's changing...—Alexandra

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do you like the way your vagina looks? go into some detail about what you do or don't like about it.

My vulva is a bit fat, and my labia minora are a little asymetrical. This used to bother me ALOT when I was younger, but now my problem is thinning pubes and trying to find a diff grooming style. But overall, I'd say I kinda like my fat cat.

have you seen many other women's vaginas? in photographs or live? where did you see them? did you compare yours to theirs? what did you think?

  I felt my sister and my best friend growing up had the "perfect" vulvas. I had seen mags and movies and theirs were more like the models/pornstars than mine was. I kinda had a complex about it.

how old are you? was this the first time you took a good look at your vagina? – if it is the first time, did you expect it to look the way it does? how often do you typically look at it? when was the first time you looked at it?

  30 yrs. old/ no/ often/ when I was a child

have your lovers told you what they think about how your vagina looks? what did they tell you? did you ask them, or did they offer?

  I never asked anybody what they thought of my vagina, but I really knew, (by the time I started having sex) that guys really don't care what your vagina looks like. My lovers have told me I was sexy in every way, so long as I'm happy, and they're happy I don't see the need in discussing vulva insecurities with a man, and making him "aware" of it when he probably never even thought anything was wrong until something is said.

this conversation makes me think...

  My vagina is awesome!

 do you like the way your vagina looks?

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