This conversation makes me think...
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Thank you brave woman who started this website! I honestly found this site as I was researching the vulva. I was looking at mine and thinking, "my gosh, this looks wierd. It doesnt look like it used to when I was a girl. Am I normal or is something wrong with me?" I was wondering if it was really "gross looking." (although my wonderful boyfriend says, "it's beautiful.") I mean we all have or know THAT image of the perfect pussy. It's neatly shaven or bald. It has gorgeous and proportionate perfectly colored outer labia and a cute little pink inner labia. But thanks to this article, I can refocus! To know that me and my labia's are perfectly fine is a self esteem booster! Now that I know other women also have large labia lips and that men find pleasure (again, boyfriend loves it) I'm elated! To know that there is no "normal" look to the vajayjay, I can once again be proud of my unique looks! And yes, I think that that is something that should come up in sex-ed, doctor's offices, etc.! Dont get me wrong, this isnt simply about what others think, or what men think, but I am heterosexual. I do want to know that my partner is happy. And I think it's fair to say that sex with another person has a hell of alot to do with aesthetics. Who's fucking someone or sumthing that their unattracted to? I'm also thinking that I cant believe I would have considered the surgery when little girls in 3rd world countries are forced into genital mutilation as well as women elsewhere that are involved in human trafficking. Thanks again for providing an open forum so there can be free and open and HONEST talk about the vagina-yet another women's issue that is unfairly treated (or untreated).
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