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what does "losing your virginity" mean to you? - define the term, and then tell us about what the experience signified for you...

  the first time you have sex with whoever...as a lesbian, it aggravates me to be told i'm still a virgin just because i've never had sex with a man...my first time was with my partner, whom i have been with for almost 12 years now, so it's cool that she was my first

what were your expectations of what the experience would be like prior to losing your virginity?

  i think i made it out to be a lot more mystical than it was...it was awesome and i enjoyed it, but people make you think it's some spiritual experience, and it isn't

how old were you, and was this the age when expected or intended to lose your virginity?

  18, and i really didn't have an expectation about when i would do it

what did it feel like? was there blood? did your partner know it was your first time and did you talk about it before?


there wasn't any blood or pain because she didn't really penetrate that much the first time, and i played sports when i was younger and had been masturbating for years...several years later we tried fisting and what was left of my hymen tore...that was pretty painful, but not that bad

what did your mother, family, friends tell you about losing your virginity...

  nothing from my parents...when one of my best friends lost hers, she told me all about it, but that's about it

what would/did you tell your daughter about losing her virginity...

don't let just anyone be your first...not because it is so mystical and spiritual,but because i've always thought sex was a very personal thing that shouldn't be shared with just anyone

this conversation makes me think...

of my wife

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